Showing posts with label Book Review. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Book Review. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Chapman’s The Five Love Languages

I finished Gary Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages.”

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This one came out in 1996 – so yeah, I am catching up.  TZ has mentioned this book quite a bit over the years, and it recently has come up in different circles of conversation.  I figured it was time for me to get it done.

The basic premise is that we have five languages of love – words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, gifts, and physical touch.  Chapman breaks each of these down through the chapters with stories of couples who were “in love” in their early years – and were potentially unconscious of how they were providing the love that their partner needed – but then go through a period of struggle as the relationship moves from in the infatuation love to the love of a long term connection.  By providing to your partner’s love language, you strengthen the relationship.

It was a quick read and so I exceeded the 20PAD goal.  I found it interesting and thought provoking.  I do find I struggle with texts that define a model off two question tests (do you like to hold your partner’s hand or do you like to hear feedback as to how wonderful you are from your partner) … I have struggled with this in the business setting with the various DISC and personality assessments.  I just don’t care for the “oh you are a blue” sort of categorization that comes out of these things – and similarly, I find the idea that you are a primary at some love language a bit off.  We are actually best when we leverage all the languages in the context that is appropriate for a partner, a friend, a co-worker, a child, a neighbor … and in the setting that is right (what you do to demonstrate love at a funeral to the bereaved is different than what you provide to a kid on the XC team after an XC meet but they are both love). 

All that said, I appreciate the model (George Box said “all models are wrong but some are useful”) and if force to subscribe to what my language is it is “words of affirmation.”  An interesting principle I have heard folks discuss that is not covered in the book is that you are most responsive to receiving a type of language, and you are also most likely to give or “communicate” back in one.  What is interesting is that these might not be the same language – or disconnect on what is being provided versus expected.  \

I’m not sure what is up next.  I have several Audible books in the queue that I need to work through so I might need to modify my 20PAD a day goal to some number of minutes that I listen to stuff.  

Sunday, December 30, 2018

The Toyota Way by Liker

The Toyota Way: by Jeffrey Liker:  I first “read” this book ten years ago or so.  I put “read” in quotes because I really just skimmed it. 

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I came back to it because many of the principles discussed in came up in conversations in my trip to a manufacturing facility in Singapore.  I decided to buzz through it as part of my “20 PAD” (twenty pages a day project) – and I got through it in just over 2 weeks. 

20 PAD means I read a little each day – and don’t just devour the book.  There is some disadvantage in that I read perhaps less than I could or should but that also means I get to consume the content I read in smaller chunks – and then consider and think on it.  For a book like this, versus say fiction, this is a preferred approach for me.

I did deviate from 20 pages a day when it made sense.  If I was in the middle of a chapter, I’d finish that (as long as I met the 20 minimum).  I didn’t count the side bar case studies in the text either.

This text came out in 2005, and so it is interesting because there is a “timing” issue here with the book given its age.  Some manufacturing principles and approaches, including the philosophies coming out of Japan appear to be timeless, but others have shifted.  And while the text is not written for software manufacturers, there is clearly the foundation elements for what is considered core doctrine in “Agile” methodologies today.

It was a good read (I think if I am hating a read outright I will just drop the text and move on) and glad I made this refresher one of my first back in the 20PAD “project.”

Next up is another that I have discussed or skimmed in the past – Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages.”    TZ has mentioned this book several times in the past decade and I have eyeballed it quickly.  I have heard it mentioned enough by people when they describe their relationships, I figured it is time to actually read it. 

Thursday, May 19, 2016

Thursday 19MAY2016

My day … the state meet in the AM.  It started with the girls in the 3200 where BHS had two sophomore girls entered.  One, seeded 18th PRd big and ended up 10th and other was 12th.  Next up was the boys 3200, and our guys went 9 and 10 – again above their seeds coming into the race.  It was a touch bittersweet because top 9 medal, and they fought for that spot in the last 150 to see who was going to make the podium.  But that is competition. 

The girls 4 x8 had an off day for 14th, but the boys 4x8 was 8th, and came in seeded 13th.   It was awesome as they ran 8:06 for a 5 second team PR – where everyone in the race PR’d by at least a bit (on my watch). 






In the afternoon, it was back up to Broomstock, checked in on the burros.

In the evening, it was off to the HS for a senior graduation honor ceremony – kids getting scholarships, appointments to West Point, department awards, etc.  Pretty inspiring – as the kids collected 8+ million in scholarships (side note, this does not account for KZ’s scholarship to Germany because they don’t have a value associated with that).

Somewhere in there I got about three miles on an unhappy rubber band.

What a day … really rich with so many amazing people doing amazing things:  kids pouring their heart into two laps on the track (or 8) … after training for months for that.  Dragging a donkey up a trail.  Or being recognized as a summa cum laude, NHS pacesetter at the school.  I am a pretty lucky guy to have all these people around me. 

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

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10.1 miles.  I felt like crap.  Or good maybe for what I have been doing.  My legs just had no pop today and I was hoping for a bit more with the easy day yesterday.  I am probably feeling the combination of accumulating fatigue, poor diet choices (read, too much beer on Saturday night), and a lousy night sleep last night.  In any case as the run unraveled I moved from easy to steady to see if I could thrump the legs a bit into moving some, but I really couldn’t get going today.  I let it sort of go and took some calls during the run as well. 10.1 miles.

JV’s recent canyon report.

Coming a bit late to this story but apparently there is some actual consideration to limiting the race scene in Leadville.

John T does not disappoint:  I'm 36 years old now.  I've dealt with a lot of issues that folks deal with when the start running.  Those issues are always the same.  Some childhood problem, your mommy didn't buy you that pony,  bad marriage, overweight, low self-esteem, rape, molestation, beating your spouse, alcoholic, drug user, killed a man, etc.., etc......     My personal issues were alcoholism, low self-esteem, and fear of abandonment and acceptance.  I got it.  It took me a while, and lots of running.  Read it when you have a long moment and then “Go on out there, be audacious.”

Running, no actually life will kill youI don’t know if running will lead to an early death, and I don’t know if the hours I’m spending on the trails are doing more harm than good, but I do know that I’m not getting out alive.

Good article on one of the buzz words of the time:  big data.

The current book I am reading:

This book was recommended to me by a colleague at work.  As the hard cover is a big red book with a swastika on the cover, it does get you looks in the airport.  I am about 2/3rds through it … a bit slow going as I get about 10 pages a night before I nod off (maybe reading about Nazis is why I am sleeping poorly?).  I don’t think you can have anything but mixed feelings on the topics covered in the text.  It certainly was amoral for us to take in not just Nazi scientists to further our military position, but what was the alternative in the face of a thermonuclear threat from the Soviets?  While I tend to have a bit of an issue with re-visitation of historical characters after death (e.g. Columbus – remember when he had his own holiday in the 70s), I am surprised that I never heard of this stuff once while growing up.  I feel a bit duped, and hence stupid that I am only learning of this at this point in my life.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Book Review: Relentless Forward Progress

This is embarrassingly overdue.

The first running book I read was sometime in the early 80 I guess. It Jim Fixx’s book “The Complete Book of Running.” I read it, and the follow up sequel book. I got both of these hard cover books from the local library back then. For what it is worth, I still have these books, and a couple others from that time period. It is rather interesting to go back and flip through the pages occasionally and see how much has changed, but really how much is EXACTLY the same.

Since then, with perhaps the exception of “Once A Runner,” or the sequel to that "Again to Carthage,” (which are actually running books but instead are one of these “this is a fictional account that rings true in all of us” of Quenton Cassidy’s life as a college miler and then later in life marathoner), I have been less than quick to pick up a training/intro to running book. I do have a copy of Sandrock’s “Running With the Legends” but even that is a bit different because you are reading about what guys like DeCastella did specifically. Or Aouita (who was THE BADASS distance runner of the late 80s).

See, I have read running books. And they are actually exactly what you expect them to be. They talk about running, getting started, building a program, and various considerations of diet, shoes, weather, etc. They usually have a conversation or two with some famous runner, maybe something about some particular race, and the obligatory training programs.

I tend to gravitate to these books to give them a quick once over while at the library or a book store. Maybe because I am less than “coachable” I usually don’t whip out the plastic to add them to the library. Same is true of running magazines in a way. I do seem to be more interested in the specific accounting of a runner or a race than the “this is running” book. Periodically, I will flip through Noakes “Lore of Running” but again I find I am drawn mostly to the chapters that cover the greats of the past more than the training programs recommended.

Some time ago however, I buzzed about wanting to read Bryon Powell’s book, “Relentless Forward Progress.” However, being the cheapskate that I am, I balked at actually buying the book. But this was a book about ULTRA distances. I pretty much had played the gambit of running races from the half mile to the marathon. But an ultra (until recently) was a bit of unknown distance to me. I wondered if there were some hidden nuggets of wisdom in this book. I had appreciated what Bryon had done for the sport, elevating its coverage on his site at Irunfar.

There was that, but also, clearly the very fact that a book was being written about ultras and being marketed as the intro to ultras reflected that – well, the sport was enjoying a bit of a boom. Marathons don’t seem to be the end all for folks anymore. There appears to be this flocking to the ultra world more and more as the way to prove your mettle (side note on that, I don’t remain convinced that ultras are any harder than marathons or even the mile for that matter … they are both running, but they can both induce a lot of suffering …the 800 is suffering in the one night stand gone bad sort of way, while an ultra is this grind you down affair like a miscalculated marriage).

Anyway, a friend offered me his copy of the book to read but then Bryon himself sent me a copy. Given my travel, it has taken me a bit to read it, but I have and here is the skinny.

it is incredibly easy to read. I usually hit the rack, grab a book and … boom … am out within 10 minutes, or about 3 pages. In my first “sitting” with this book, however I had ripped through the first 50 pages.
… as you’d expect, this is running and so, well at some point, it is running. But Powell has a built a nice pocket introductory compendium for the person looking to have one location to consider expanding their running from marathon distances to the 50k, 50 mile, 100k or 100 mile. It hits the basics but also has some great side bars from some of the top of the sport like Mackey, Roes, Wardian, Chase, Moehl and Torrence (and others). I particularly enjoyed the back and forth on whether to do speedwork or not between Roes (no) and Torrence (yes).
… I guess I did not realize it until I saw it one place … there are quite a bit of differences with ultras that when added together are significant when compared to marathon and lesser races. Poles (or not), eating (during the race), going to the bathroom, managing aide stations, hydration packs or water bottles, walking versus running, falling (inevitable), drop bags, a crew … seeing this in one place, one book made me realize that while all of these are relatively simple topics, the world of ultras can seem pretty daunting to the runner considering it. There are a lot of additional logistics. Once you have done it, it seems pretty basic. But until then it is this crazy world of guys in compression socks running from buffet station to buffet station in the woods screaming things like “I’M A TIMMY.” So, this book serves as a great reference to the newbie.
… and so yes, it includes training plans. I won’t lie, I did not even look at these for more than 10 seconds. I am sure there is some value in them. That said, my (as Sean calls it) grumpy old man instincts kick in when I see the “do the ultra on 70 miles a week plans.” Yes, I know you can do this. And yes, I know some folks are incredibly successful with that. And yes, I know that if it is 70 a week in the mountains, that is probably more like 100 on the roads. And yes, I realize I don’t run much more than that (my counter argument to that is the length of time I have been running has built a base of consistency that I can draw on). I think essentially though, my take on these running plans are in most cases… “run more.” That said for the guy or gal looking for a something to start with, this is a good place. Bryon even admits that these are “starter” plans because it is impossible to draw up a plan in a book that will work for everyone.
… ultimately, one of things I appreciate about the ultras community (and this might be something that is lost in the lesser distance community) is the willingness to share and appreciate the journey of the participants. Bryon’s efforts here reflect a willingness to bring more people into the sport to share in that experience. Pretty cool.

Clearly, Bryon is a contributing factor in the sport of ultras. By contributing, I mean he is shaping how the sport is seen and appreciated. His name is as familiar as any of the champion in this sport not because of his wins to the finish line with his feet but because of of his winning media contributions via keyboard in terms of this text, his website of resources, and his coverage of races (plus he seems to be giving something away every other week). I actually heard a podcast the other day where a first time ultra runner was asked what research they did to prepare for their event. The person named Bryon’s “Irunfar” site explicitly as the site as where to get this information.

On my scorecard, that means I hope I can thank him for sharing this book with me by getting the opportunity to buy him a beer (or three) when our paths cross. That might mean I need to do a few more ultras.